Monday, February 12, 2007


How do guys do it. There's an Introvert who says [said] how it isn't fair that a guy should have just the one woman. You want to be with this one some of the time but this other one is equally interesting and you want to be with her some of the other time. I think I've asked somewhere whether a guy with a chic is allowed to talk/hang out with other chics. And if so, where do the boundaries of what can/can't be said/done dlie. Can you ask other people, for instance, what they are wearing [that always causes a rush to my head], or must you stick to safer waters, and the weather. I also used to wonder how guys manage to go out with someone for like a year. I figured that must be some deep stuff going on to be able to pull that off, in which case you should just get hitched and get it over with.

And what is a guy meant to do, when there's a chic who isn't the chic [guys will never admit to such] in one corner, another singing in his ear and kissing his neck, and yet another in between these with her hands all over her own breasts, inviting him to do likewise.


Blogger aJamaa said...

I dont think the guys who do it know how they do it. It just happens. Its like the way a guy says he wants to drink less as he lifts up that glass of Tusker to his lips. A guy just cant help himself. You keep promising yourself, wacha amalize exams and then it is over, or I will do it after Christmas, or after her birthday. And when the guy finally does it, he finds himself calling her just to say hi, or meeting up for old times sakes e.t.c Like I said a guy doesn't do it. It just happens to him and before he knows it he has been with this chik he doesnt expect to spend his life with for a year and something.

As for what a guy does about all the other women, I am convinced a jamaa can say and do absolutely anything. As soon as he understands that it is wrong to restrict himself to just one woman. But it might not be easy to convince yourself of that.

Monday, February 12, 2007 3:43:00 PM  
Blogger Samborera said...

So that's how that happens. I guess if a guy just can't help himself, it can't be too bad.

Tuesday, February 13, 2007 7:40:00 AM  

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