Numb

I have done enough pursuing to last me a while. I won't start ranting here about all my experiences in this regard. Bottom line is these days, I'll probably call up a chic twice. If there's no favourable response, ... delete the number and move on.

Of course, I have only 2 chics in my phonebook right now who I'm not related to, so this path is not for the faint-hearted.